sâmbătă, 25 octombrie 2014

The secret

The Secret is the film which turned my life around in a way I never thought was possible.Its main focus is on how our thoughts can influent our whole existence.Furthermore , it explains how a simple thought can attract different situations.

Firstly , a thought is a signal sent by our brain to the Universe.The Universe immediately receives it and transforms it into a situation or an action.For example , if I really want an apple pie right now but I don't have the ingredients but at the same time I cannot stop imagining how it would  look and taste my pie if I had everything I need , it is very possible that something might come in the way and make my pie magically appear.For example , my neighbor or a friend could come over and bring an apple pie as a gift.The main idea is that when you desire something so much that you cannot stop thinking about it , somehow it comes to you.It can happen in 10 minutes , one day ore one month , but in the end it will happen if you wish for it enough.

Secondly , we all see people who are constantly frustrated or really stressed.They keep complaining that their lives are miserable , that they have too many payments or that their salaries are too low.If I tell you that all of this is their own fault , you wouldn't believe me.When your only thoughts are bound to the fact that you have too much work to do for example , the Universe will receive it as a wish for more work and as a consequence to this , you schedule will get busier and busier.We have to start being grateful for what we have and thankful that we can carry everything on our shoulders.Whether you are tired or stressed , just remember that you have to stay positive in order to attract good things into your life.As long as you keep thinking at the bad side of your life , you will only attract bad situations or events.Let's say that you are not tremendously happy with your job and you would love to be promoted.You won't have a chance if you complain everyday of how others get promoted and you don't , even if you have a better qualification.Instead , you could say to yourself : «I have all the qualifications required and I can work really hard, in fact this is what I do everyday.Maybe is not my time to get the promotion , I should be happy that I am healthy and that I have a job.When the time will come , it will happen. » If you say this to yourself and keep visualizing how it would be like if you had been promoted , your chances will raise considerably.

All of these situations are explained by philosophers and psychologists who give their own examples in the movie.They all say how this secret has changed their lives and how it can change yours if you stop complaining and start wishing from the heart.

I will now give my example of how this movie changed my life.Ever since I was a little girl , I wanted to have a nice group of friends.During the first years of school , this did not happen.It was even worse , I was been bullied by my classmates and nobody has ever appreciated me.Everyday I was dreaming to be the person people say Hi to and asked to hang out or have lunch.This did not happen for a really long time.However , the first day of high school came and I was freaking out , but I had the same wish.There was the first day of high school : new people , new location and new teachers and let's not forget , a new me.I wanted to be different I wanted to change myself in order to be accepted.And there I was , standing with a shy expression on my face in my classroom with people I did not know , and guess what...They chose me to be their leader.They didn't even know who I was , they didn't even talk to me.But somehow , they have all voted for me.After this wonderful day , my wish slowly came true. What we all have to understand is that we make our own miracles and that they can take a long time , but if we wish for them enough they will eventually happen.

All in all , this is a film I recommend to anyone craving for a change in their lives.It helps you understand that your life is in your own hand and that you can make it as beautiful as you want it to be , with just your thoughts.Complaining will never bring you good things , it will only enrich the bad in your life.

marți, 4 februarie 2014

Lumea, asa cum e ea

              Adevarata frumusete a lumii ce ma inconjoara nu poate fi atinsa si nici vazuta , ea poate fi doar simtita.Poate din aceasta cauza nu reusesc intotdeauna sa apreciez lucrurile cu adevarat importante din viata mea.
                  Traversez fiecare zi in acelasi ritm alert ,cu aceiasi pasi nepasatori si cu acelasi unic scop:sa reusesc sa termin cu bine lista lucrurilor ce necesita o rezolvare in acea zi specifica , pentru a ma putea duce la culcare linistita.Ironia insa se repeta de fiecare data si cu toate acestea nu reusesc sa o intrerup:in fiecare seara , gandurile ma tin treaza pana noaptea tarziu, cu toate ca lista a fost cu succes rezolvata.Acest fapt ma face uneori sa ma gandesc daca nu cumva am omis anumite lucruri de pe acea lista , daca nu cumva am uitat sa scriu ceva.
                  Vedem lumea asa cum suntem invatati sa o vedem.Stim doar ca trebuie sa ne trezim dimineata , sa indeplinim cererile din ziua respectiva si sa ajungem sanatosi seara acasa.Insa ce nu stim este ca lumea inconjuratoare nu este alcatuita numai din indatoriri , ci si din lucruri marunte menite sa ne infrumuseteze viata.Poate fi vorba despre un zambet impartasit cu o persoana in autobuz , poate fi o raza de soare aparuta la momentul potrivit sau o vorba frumoasa venita din partea unei persoane drage noua.Ce nu facem noi este ca nu mai observam aceste mici lucruri si uitam sa le apreciem.Vedem lumea ca fiind un loc rau doar pentru ca ea este propria noastra reflexie.Horace Walpole a afirmat faptul ca «Lumea este o comedie pentru cei ce gandesc si o tragedie pentru cei ce simt».Este o comedie , deoarece daca te gandesti putin la lucrurile care ti se intampla sau pe care le vezi in jur iti dai seama ca uneori totul este o gluma nereusita creeata chiar de noi.Cat despre cei care simt , lumea este o adevarata tragedie.Cei empatici cu tot ce ii inconjoara sunt cei care cunosc adevarata esenta a vietii , adevarata iubire si scopul principal.Ei inteleg cel mai bine cum ar trebui sa fie , de ce este asa cum este si ei sunt cei care au cel mai mult de suferit.
                Ce este interesant la lumea ce ma inconjoara este ca nu o pot schimba.Oricat de mult as vrea ca bancnota universala sa fie iubirea , zambetul sa ia locul unui rece «Buna ziua» si timpul sa treaca mai greu , acestea nu se pot schimba.Lumea se poate schimba doar prin schimbarea oamenilor, deoarece ea este defapt totalitatea oamenilor de pe acest Pamant.Dar cum sa ne schimbam , cand noi nici macar nu stim cu adevarat cine suntem si care ne este traseul in viata? Cum schimbam ceva ce nu putem intelege pe deplin , ceva ce nici nu am gasit inca?Cu totii incercam sa deslusim necunoscutul , iar acesta se afla in fiecare dintre noi si cel mai probabil nu il vom intelege pe deplin niciodata.Dar poate ca secretul nu sta in deslusirea necunoscutlui , ci in acceptarea lui in deplinatatea facultatilor sale.Poate ca unele lucruri nu pot fi schimbate , ci doar intelese.
             Ies in lume in fiecare zi si majoritatea lucrurilor de care ma lovesc nu pot fi incadrate in categoria celor placute, insa in acea multime de neplaceri apare din cand in cand o licarire de speranta.Uneori este vorba despre un zambet , despre o imbratisare pe care o vad intre doi oameni ce se iubesc sincer , sau un strain ajutand o masina sa iasa din zapada in care s-a impotmolit chemandu-si prietenul sa i se alature in aceasta misiune printr-un simplu «Hai sa il ajutam».Si daca pana la acea licarire am avut impresia ca in jurul meu se asterne din ce in ce mai multa ceata, aceasta a reusit prin simplitatea sa , sa o inlature in mare parte.Poate ca acestea sunt lucrurile pe care ar trebui sa ne concentram mai mult , poate ca ele sunt cele care conteaza defapt si pe care noi le omitem.

           Punand accentul pe toate aceaste elemente , imi dau astfel seama ca este posibil sa nu fi inteles viata pana acum si nici lumea din jurul meu ,dar in acelasi timp inteleg un lucru: ca poate nu asta trebuie sa fac.Poate ca scopul meu in aceasta lume nu este de a o intelege si nici de a-i deslusi secretele.In fond , acestea si-ar pierde valoarea daca ar iesi la iveala , iar viata ar deveni monotona.Poate ca toate lucrurile au farmecul lor asa cum sunt si nu au nevoie de atingerea schimbarilor mele.Ajung treptat la concluzia ca eu sunt singura care are nevoie de mici modificari, pentru a deveni o persoana mai buna si pentru a-i influenta macar intr-o mica masura pe cei carora chiar le pasa spre a deveni ceva mai bun, ceva ce cu siguranta pot fi.Poate ca toti avem nevoie de un mic impuls , de un luru exterior propriei noastre persoane pentru a ajunge sa intelegem anumite lucruri si poate tocmai din acest motiv suntem toti pe aceeiasi planeta.

marți, 7 ianuarie 2014


Ohh I keep seeing posts which have a tendency of encouraging people to give up hope and love and everything that is GOOD in this life just because they have been disappointed by someone or something or by their own person.
You guys really need to stop doing this.Can’t you see that you are making it WORSE? It’s like telling a kid not to do a thing -> he will surely do it just to prove you wrong or piss you off. Get your shit together.
We are all BROKEN in some way. Nobody’s problems get solved by themselves and NO ONE’S APPARENTLY PERFECT LIFE is actually perfect because there is no such thing.There is always something missing,  we just have to learn to live with it.And even if someone has a BETTER life than you do , it doesn’t mean that they just sit in front of TV and their lives got better.They did something FOR THEMSELVES.You cannot change anything , you can only change the way you see and understand things.
We all get attached to unsecure things that might not even be there the next day.But this is what makes us HUMANS.
Stop telling people that once they’re broken they cannot be fixed.Come on it’s not the end of the world.Life goes on , we just have to find a way to make everything work in spite of that one think that broke us which is not there anymore.I know best what is like to feel that there is nothing good left out there.But there is , and with a little effort you can find it.Find that one thing in music , friends , nature , light , flowers , sports , anything and hold on to it and there you have it. Those are the moment in which you find your true self.Once you find yourself , you have everything. Find out what you like , what you care about most , what you enjoy doing , what are the things you appreciate most at a person , anything that has to do with YOU and only you.
So guys , please , don’t encourage that kind of negative thinking.You are really not being helpful.

luni, 6 ianuarie 2014

Cele mai frumoase clipe

               Cele mai frumoase clipe din viata mea, sunt cele in care sunt alaturi de persoana in care am cea mai mare incredere , cea pe care doresc sa o vad atat dimineata cat si seara.Motivul zambetului meu si al fericirii mele.
               Momentele in care, stau intinsa in pat langa el , imbracata in tricoul ce ii poarta parfumul si pantalonii lui de casa ce miros a balsam.Atingerile lui pe pielea mea , saruturile lui dulci pe fruntea mea plina de griji , ducandu-le astfel in alta lume pentru cateva momente si soaptele lui iubitoare. Amintirile depanate sub patura pufoasa ce ne reflecta caldura corpului si creearea unor noi aventuri. Recunoasterea tuturor lucrurilor minunate pe care le impartim , apreciind fiecare secunda petrecuta impreuna. Momentele in care se sprijina in cot si se apleaca spre mine , daruindu-mi un sarut dulce imbibat in sentimente pure ce imi invaluie corpul.Acel zambet ce ii lumineaza toata fata.Parul ciufulit , dar care arata mereu bine.Acea privire pe care o adreseaza unei singure persoane , mie.Felul in care imi spune ca sunt frumoasa si modul in care reuseste sa transmita exact ceea ce eu doresc sa percep.Felul in care ma invie de fiecare data cu o mangaiere.Clipele in care stam imbratisati sub aceeasi patura si privim pe geam spre aceeasi luna privita din acelasi unghi.
                Felul in care imi cauta mana atunci cand mergem impreuna pe strada si grija pe care o arata la fiecare trecere de pietoni.Acea tendinta de a se gandi mai intai la mine si dupa aceea la el.Capacitatea sa de a vedea fiecare sclipire de "bine" din fiecare firisor de "rau".Metoda prin care reuseste de fiecare data sa ma faca sa rad atunci cand sunt trista , dar si atunci cand plang.Modul in care a invatat ce imi place si ce nu si in care imi accepta toate pretentiile pretentioase pe care le am de mute ori in mod nejustificat.Telepatia dintre noi si felul in care lasa de la el pentru capriciile mele.
              In principiu , fiecare , bucatica , din , corpul , lui , si , din , mintea , si , sufletul , lui.